Dear Annie: I am a 37-year-old man, married for 13 years. I have the newspaper delivered just to read your column. I wanted to comment on the letter from "Having a Stroke in Pennsylvania." She said her husband has an addiction to porn and has no interest in having sex with her.

I, too, found myself in that situation. My wife finally cornered me and insisted I tell her why. In my particular situation, it was my wife's weight. When we first married, she was stunning. Within two years, and after our first child, she gained over 60 pounds and continued to eat poorly. I suddenly found myself not attracted to her anymore. I am not proud of it, but I couldn't change how I felt.

I never said anything about her weight because I thought it would seem shallow, that it shouldn't be important to me, and I truly loved her. I stayed in our marriage because of the children and eventually found myself where I thought I would never be -- lost in pornography addiction.

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